Love, relationships and romance are one of the main reasons people will search tarot for an answer. After all, becoming emotionally involved with a person is an energetic investment that can put your heart at risk, so you want to know if it's safe to open up and allow that person into your life. Whether it's a simple flirtation, an old flame that burns brightly, or an individual who you are totally in love with, sometimes you just want to know where things are heading. If you have your own set of tarot cards you use one of these easy to follow examples to gain an understanding of the dynamics of the relationship and its direction.
FINDING TRUE LOVE
This is a seven card Tarot spread that addresses that old, old question....Will I ever find true love?
- Will the querent ever find true love?
- Will the attraction be instant or a slow-burning realisation?
- What will this person be like physically?
- What will this person be like emotionally?
- Are there issues the querent needs to deal with that are delaying a meeting/relationship with this person?
- Are there issues this person needs to deal with that are preventing a meeting/relationship?
- When/where/how will the querent meet this person?
HOW DO WE SEE EACH OTHER?
Use this spread on your own or with a partner to reveal the truth of how you each view the other and the relationship.
- How does A see B
- How does B see A
- What A wants from the relationship
- What B wants from the relationship
- Where A believes this relationship is going
- Where B believes this relationship is going
GETTING BACK TOGETHER WITH AN EX-LOVER
This is a nine card Tarot spread that looks at the possibility of the querent getting back together with an ex-lover.
- Past history of the querent's relationship.
- Where the querent is now.
- Where the querent's ex is now.
- What the querent really feels about getting back together with their ex.
- What their ex really feels about getting back together with the querent.
- Who or what opposes what the querent wants.
- Who or what can help the querent get what they want.
- Something the querent may not know about the situation.
This is a ten card Tarot spread that looks at two potential lovers. This spread is for those occasions when a querent needs to make a decision about which lover to spend time on.
- Does #1 have the potential to be a "true love" for the querent?
- Influences acting as an obstacle to a relationship with #1.
- Influences acting in favour of a relationship with #1.
- What should the querent do to help make #1 part of their life?
- Will the querent be happy with #1?
- Does #2 have the potential to be a "true love" for the querent?
- Influences acting as an obstacle to a relationship with #2.
- Influences acting in favour of a relationship with #2.
- What should the querent do to help make #2 part of their life?
- Will the querent be happy with #2?